Party Lingo

"420" - pot

"bareback" - sex without condoms, also called "natural sex," "raw fucking," or "skin on skin." If you only do safe sex, these kinds of parties are not for you.

"black out" - the lights turn off and you grab and do the person next to you, or he grabs and does you.

"brothas party" - party for black and other men of color.  White guys who appreciate and enjoy sex with men of color may   also be welcome at these parties, but be sure to ask.

"bukkake" - tops surround a bottom and jack off on his face or chest. Often done as the finish of a gangbang.

CD - cross-dresser, guys who enjoy wearing women's clothing

"chem-friendly" - drug use is allowed

"chem party" - a party where guys have sex while using drugs

"circuit party" - dance parties, usually held as charity events. May or may not include sex, but often does, so "circuit party" is sometimes also used to refer to orgies.

"daisy chain"  - either several guys in a row blowing each other, rimming each other, or fucking each other.

"DL" - see "downlow"

"dogpile" - two guys fuck doggie style while another guy fucks the guy on top doggie style, another guy fucks that guy doggie style, and so on..

"double-dicking" - also called "double dipping" or "double entry."  Two tops fuck a bottom at the same time.  Often done as part of a gangbang.

"downlow" - or "on the downlow,"  discrete sex, especially between guys who are married or identify as straight.  Usually used by men of color.

"dungeon party" - party for guys in the leather and BDSM lifestyles.  May include leather, bondage, discipline, domination / submission,  watersports, fisting, toys.  May or may not involve bareback.

"felching" - eating cum out of a fresh fucked ass.  Needless to say, this is usually done at bareback parties.

"gangbang" - several guys take turns fucking a bottom. Popular as a way of celebrating a birthday.

"J/O party" - same as a circle jerk.  May or may not also include oral sex.

"K-9" - sex with a dog. (NOTE: We do NOT accept announcements for parties which involve this activity, but at least you will know what it means if you see one announced elsewhere.)

"mmf" - "male male female" - bi-sex.

"natural sex" - bareback

"party favors" - can refer to either drugs or condoms and lube.  Ask to be sure.

"PnP" - "party and play," having sex while using drugs.

"poppers" - nitrite inhalants/ room odorizers like Rush or Jungle Juice.  Intensifies orgasm and helps bottoms relax their assholes while getting fucked.  Too much can cause headaches and kill hard-ons, and may impair judgement.

"powder" - cocaine

"pump party" - party where guys use vacuum pumps

"raw fucking" - same as "bareback"

"safe sex" - just what it says, no sex allowed without a condom.  If you're into barebacking, this is not for you.

"scat" - shit play

"skins" - can refer to 1) skinheads (guys with buzzed hair or shaved heads), 2) guys with foreskin (uncircumsized), 3) bareback sex, as in "skin on skin" - ask to be sure.

"Tina" - speed or amphetamines, used by guys into intense PnP sex. (And you thought this Tina that was at all the parties was just a popular gal.)

"tossed salad" - rimming, eating ass

"train" - gangbang

"vanilla" - basic, non-fetish, fuck'n'suck sex

"video party" - the party will be filmed.  Wear a mask or don't go if you're planning on running for office.

"watersports" - piss play, sometimes also refers to enemas.

"wet party" - same as watersports

"X" - ecstasy